Adoyai....
Diya lately tantrum habis! If she tak dapat satu benda dia nak tu habis dia nangis berguling! Till one point I dah terduduk n terpikir how shall I handle her in dis situation?? I tak rasa pukul akan menyelesaikan masalah nih.. shouting will only teach her to shout at me back.. so what should I do? Very small reason also can make her mengamok soooo much! So, what I did was, everytime dia melalak bila tak dapat aper dia nak (at da moment I apply dis at home only lah, kat luar or shopping mall belom lagi), I will take her to a small corner n make her stand or sit there till she finishes her cries! She will attempt to move or go towards me ill scold her n say STAY THERE!! With my finger pointing to the spot! She will still cry but at least she stay on her spot n cry there. Bila dia habis nangis I’ll pujuk her back lah, give her big hug n talk to her nicely that what she did was wrong.. Betul ke aper I buat nih?
hmm..kaedah yg sama diguna oleh cikgu erica jugak =) bila samseng gua pernah sekali nak buli budak (size dia jugak la ekk), cikgu erica made her stand at 1 corner as she cries. then dia diam lepas tu. cikgu erica said no need waste saliva marah budak nakal. buat sakit jiwa sendiri je. hahahaa. but sometimes at home, si samsengku ini memang cekik dara gua!! marah jugak kadang2. sort of stern warning kat dia la. then slowly she will apologize to me dgn muka memek dia tu.
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